Is it Enough to Just Wait and See?

To my dear fellow Filipinos inside our country and all over the world.

Finally, after months of enduring rainfalls and heart-breaking issues of the past administration and of the country, in general, we have embarked on yet another journey that would forever change the history of the Philippines forever. We have placed our votes, an individual choice that is much more meaningful for every citizen than for one’s self. The stakes are on, and what’s left for us to do is wait.

Waiting, in lay man’s term, is the simple act of practicing patience and mind-coordination with one’s physical actions. Waiting helps an individual to think about the actions he or she is yet to make, and a majority of actions are thought carefully, because these people who are to commit to these actions were able to wait. So it begins, and let’s face it, in waiting.

What we cannot see right now are, obviously, the entirety of the truth. Some of our candidates believe they’ve been cheated, or they’ve been held against their own will to run freely into the political spectrum. We also cannot see if the polls flashed on our TV or Laptop screens are factual. But it doesn’t matter. What the people in the media and the officials wants from us citizens is to wait. It is in their assurance that what we wait for is worth it.But we have to act. We have to do something about it while we wait. We cannot just stay put and wait for the decision. We do something about it! We open our minds and our hearts and broadcast what we know is rightful to do! We open our eyes and observe the surroundings. We open our ears and listen to the cries of the people, to the grief they shout, to the calls they make. It is true, what I just mentioned, that to wait is of greater importance than to finally see it coming. Remember, it was Confucius who said that “It doesn’t matter where we go to, it’s by getting there that counts,” and I believe him. It would definitely bring our country to a different perspective once again, as another chief-of-staff sit on the presidential throne. As many other past administrations, this one coming would definitely bring forth criticism, doubt, anger, uncertainty, but more or less, trust, loyalty, respect and love. But it is not in waiting that this can bring each of us happiness.It is in doing our part as citizens of this country.

We have done our part. We have voted. We have made our choice. We have won the fight over ourselves on whether or not we should make this choice and bring it out in the open. The battle, unfortunately, is just beginning.

In a few hours from now, or maybe, if it will imply that it would take another day or two before final proclamations can be made, we would find out who has won. We would finally see that light at the end of the tunnel. We would be done waiting. In the mean time, though, waiting can still motivate us to think about what is going on. Patience, as what was mentioned before, is very much connected with ‘Waiting.’ And it is through patience that we are able to know what type of person we are. It is in patience that we try new things, or get rid of bad. It is indeed a virtue planted in each of us by the Almighty.

What is wrong with the polls telling us our candidate/s of choice did not win? What is wrong with us telling each other that he or she should have better poll results or that he or she should concede now? There is something wrong. We are obviously not as united as we liked to be. During the Aquino assassination some few years back, we were finally united to tell Marcos he has got to go. We were united to sign a petition proclaiming Corazon Aquino’s candidacy for presidency. We were united to bring freedom to our country. And then a few administrations go by, and what do we find? Corruption. Graft. Undying poverty. Never-ending fights for freedom. Vote buying. Cheating. Judicial Killings. Wars. When would this end? If I use our ‘Waiting Philosophy’ in these scenarios, would we ever get anywhere? Of course not! It is not our duty to wait and see. It is, therefore, our duty to do what we think or what we know is right.

It is also true that we cannot accept how the results are turning out. This is something most Filipinos are not capable of overcoming: Defeat. We are so pride-stricken, that we forget to surrender. But what if this result could actually bring us the freedom that we need? What if our country can become a place of unity and of prosperity, as it once was, because of these results?  What if this can make a difference in each of us? Then we cannot just Wait and See. We have to do something. We might not know yet what we can do or what we have to do, but we can very well see that during the reign of this person, we might be able to do something.

I ask you all the respect that the president and the vice president, along with all those who will be elected. I ask you all the sincerity of accepting their win and the open-mindedness that they can very well make something great happen. In unity and dignity, the Philippines would forever triumph. Then, we can might as well say that what most of us waited for, and saw, was truly and undoubtedly worth it after all. God bless the Republic of the Philippines, and God bless the Filipinos of the world!

A-List of Chick Flicks: A recommendation

This would be done via genre or story type. Some flicks have the exact same plot. My observation is that most of them end up being too cheesy! 🙂

{Let me remind you, though, that all of these recommendations are ROMANTIC COMEDIES!!!}

I. Guy-meets-girl-in-one-day-they-fall-in-love

1.) The Clock (1945)

2.) The Voice of the Turtle {a.k.a. One for the Book} (1947)

3.)Sleepless in Seattle (1993)

4.) One Fine Day (1996)

II. Guy-girl-clashes

1.) The Shop Around the Corner (1940)

2.) You’ve Got Mail (1998)

3.) Runaway Bride (1999)

III. Unexpected turn of events

1.) Pretty Woman (1990)

2.) Notting Hill (1999)

3.) Legally Blond (2001)

4.) Wedding Planner (2001)

5.) Maid in Manhattan (2002)

IV. The best of the best!

1.) The Philadelphia Story (1940)

2.) An Affair to Remember (1957)

3.) Breakfast at Tiffany’s (1961)

4.) When Harry Met Sally (1989)

5.) Love Actually (2003)

The Master (or not) of Chick Flicks! PART I

Alrightey, let me do something unusual for a change. I’ve recently seen a chick flick that would certainly mark it as one of the best chick flicks ever to be released on film. And so, by that, I have decided to do something I’ve never done before– Ta-dah! I am going to write a simple review of some of the Chick Flicks I’ve seen in the last couple of years (or basically, since the beginning of my fascination for them!)

I would list these flicks in no order, meaning they’re in random, and I guess the purpose of that is to avoid biases. Let us now begin, shall we?

1.) Runaway Bride

Now, I know this would be a weird way of starting the list with Runaway Bride, but let me just say that I chose this to be first because it’s the first movie that came out of my head! I’m honest about that. For a simple gist of it: Maggie Carpenter (played by lovely Julia Roberts) is famous, in her town, for being called the “Runaway Bride”. She has this reputation of leaving the altar just when the ceremonies are about to begin. Ike Graham (played by then-handsome Richard Gere) found out about her and decided to use her story (or stories) as subject for his column. Of course, when the whole town found out about it, Maggie gets furious. Then all the while, as time progresses, both of them got to know each other and eventually, they find happiness in each other’s arms. The climax was intriguing, too! They were about to get married, but Maggie was too much attached to her reputation that she did the same thing to Ike! The resolution would be either Ike takes her back or not. I guess you have to find that out for yourself. But I suspect you already know about it!

The good thing about Runaway Bride is its lesson about marriage. It’s alright, I believe, to take matters like this seriously, and I believe also that it is the responsibility of both parties to think things over. What’s wrong, though, is Maggie’s on-the-spot decision. She would have thought about it days before the wedding. Between you and me, there must have been something wrong with her psychologically! (But we wouldn’t delve into that now, would we?) As people might say, “Marriage is hard enough for bringing such low expectations into it!” So expect the unexpected when you’re getting married! But nevertheless, the movie was up there, with all the other movies that are good-feeling or something watchamacallit.

Another thing I like about this movie is the magnitude of the stars. Come on, Julia Roberts, Richard Gere, Hector Elizondo, Rita Wilson, JOAN CUSACK! What an entirely great cast! And Gary Marshall is one of those directors that brings out the best in you! If you haven’t seen it, then I suggest you do right now!!!

2.) Maid in Manhattan

Ah, yes. Maid in Manhattan. It honestly sounds like “The Nanny”, if you ask me. But hey, this is one of those movies you’ll always want to see! Aside from having Ralph Fiennes in it, and of course, J-Lo, what is nice about this movie is Natasha Richardson’s role in it! (May she rest in peace. I’ve always enjoyed her in ‘Parent Trap’!) Why I say this, I’m not really sure. But you won’t see her in the end wishing it was her that Ralph Fiennes choose–(Whoops! I just spoiled you!!!) Anyway, as it turned out, J-Lo and Ralph do end up together, and they have the little son to help them, too!

Maid in Manhattan is a story of a dreamy-eyed hotel housekeeping employee who, for some reason, is forced by a friend of hers to try some of the clothes that this gorgeous heiress asked them to look after. And she ends up going out in it. Then, this handsome senatorial candidate spots her along with her son in Central Park! He then arranges for them to meet at a dinner, or drinks, I’m not sure, and lo and behold, it wasn’t the maid who comes! (It’s pathetic to tell the whole story here, so I better not!)

What I do like about the story, itself, is how magical the turn-of-events came out. How many senators or politicians do you know end up marrying employees below their degree? I don’t want to be racial about it, but I observe that it is rarity at its best that this can ever happen! If it happened to me, then I’ll be grateful about it for sure!

3.) The Shop Around the Corner

This would be a complete turn of the compass, for let us go back to the 1940’s! The Shop Around the Corner is actually the original, if not the better, version of ‘You’ve Got Mail,’ which is also a chick flick (which I will discuss maybe in part II because I plan to discuss the best of the best IMO chick flicks I’ve ever seen there!) and the whole plot is basically the same. A man meets a girl, well, they work together in the same store, and they have different views in life, including how to sell a wallet to a buyer. Yes, they have arguments, too, but what is good about them is, invisibly, or without them knowing it, they’re actually secret pen pal lovers!

Well, I have to admit, I had a hard time watching this for the very first time. I’ve seen it on youtube, and there are 9 or 10 parts of it! I’m not even sure if there are more. And aside from that, it’s in Black and White, which isn’t a big deal, really. But I always did believe that if Hollywood during the war would have filmed their movies in color, then my eyes wouldn’t hurt and I would see how pretty women were during those time! (I say this because it’s easier to imagine how good looking men were during those time because they only, or mostly, have the same hair coloring compared to women who had more than one shade!)

If you love ‘You’ve Got Mail’ and it’s comedic approach to this sort of lovable and not that high-spirited love story, then I suggest you remove your biases and just enjoy it. The best scenes here are the ending and when Jimmy Stewart comes to Margaret Sullavan’s apartment to visit her. I’m sure you’ll find some similarities between the two movies but all the same, this is a movie you and I will enjoy for sure!

That’s about it for now, my eyes are tired and if I don’t stop typing, I’ll get arthritic! I don’t want that to happen, you know. I’ll see you next time!!!

A decision has to be made!

I know this wouldn’t be much of a long entry like the usual that I post, but this is regarding things going on in my life. My horoscope tells me I have to make a decision. Of course, I have yet to find out what this decision would be, and what it is for, actually. I think I know!

Does it have anything to do with the elections?

I think so!

Lately, I’ve been so bored, so I decided to channel on through youtube and find interesting inaugural speeches of past presidents. I’ve enjoyed my idol’s speeches so much (Reagan’s) that I viewed all of them in one day! I found Pres. Cory’s speeches good, too. The most recent speech I’ve seen is of Obama’s. I thought first hand how great his ghost writer is! And yes, I’ve also seen his Notre Dame College commencement address. If I was part of that graduating class, boom! Would I enjoy it!!!

Wouldn’t it be nice if the newly elected president of the Philippines give his (because, obviously, a male candidate would win!) address to our graduation on the 19th of June? I would so wish for that to happen!!!

I’m back for good!

How long has it been since I last did this? Oh maybe months already flew by. I can’t even remember the last time I blogged (If a verb like this exists now). And well, I can’t really promise this, but I’ll be blogging everyday from now on.

Now, to begin, let me just reiterate that I am, if I may say so myself, a very apolitical person. But that only comes in when Philippine politics is being discussed. It’s just like being atheistic (the difference is the view point, of course!), you have no biases in terms of your position. As I’ve mentioned several times in my life, I go with the flow, and do what it takes to guide myself through that flow (whether or not it’s good or bad). The election is coming and to be honest I have yet to choose who I’ll vote for for the presidential category. The vice-presidential category is all set. Every one from my friend’s list knows who I vote for: Mar Roxas! And not simply because he’s tied with Korina, who I think is a good news anchor. I believe in Roxas and I know he’ll do what is right. My sister did say that once you’re rich when you were born, there might be a possibility that you won’t need more money anymore. (Unless you’re a sick lunatic who praise money as if it brought you into this world!!!)

Anyway, as far as I’m concerned, I don’t have a decision yet! I’ll think about it tomorrow 😉

Next stop, the book I’m reading– well, rereading! Life of Pi is so vindicated that you won’t even try putting it down if you wanted to! It would tell you, allegorically, what should be done in times of trouble. Let me put it this way. Supposing you’re trapped inside a cave, and well, the only way for you to get help is venture into the darkness of it. Along the way, you meet snakes and bats and spiders that won’t harm you personally, but instead would eat each other alive. After awhile, and just before your food ration runs out, you get rescued! And lo and behold, the creatures who accompanied you leaves you alone, after trying your hardest to save them. Sounds familiar? I would think so! Clearly, it discusses on Survival of the Fittest, having man survive it all because of his intelligence and carefree spirit. It’s a great read, nonetheless! And I wouldn’t miss the ending, again, for the world!

Well, anyway, I guess I should end my entry for today with a quote I got from Ronald Reagan: “I know in my heart that man is good. That what is right will always eventually triumph. And there’s purpose and worth to each and every life.”


CHEERS!

Tigger Lily